Obesity, Morality, and Shame Wednesday, March 17, 2010 at 3:04 pm
I’ve been reading an interesting series of posts from Rod Dreher and Ta-Nehisi Coates. Rod starts off with a post about a 602-pound woman who is intentionally trying to get to 1,000 pounds. He brings this up first before going on to rail against an article in the New York Times suggesting that stigmatization against fat people is wrong and unproductive.
TNC, responding to the same article, muses:
I’m not clear on precisely how much shame can actually help. It’s shame that’s created our absurd McWeightLoss culture where Octomom takes to the cover of celebrity magazines to show off her new bikini body, and retired athletes claim to have found the secret to losing five pounds a week. It’s symptomatic of who are, of our abiding belief in short-cuts, and our technological ability to elide truth.
Rod responds here defending shaming the obese, relating his own struggles with being overweight, and that he doesn’t want to slip into accepting or being okay with his vice (of, he says, being mediocre and gluttonous and lazy).
Where to start?
I suppose I can start where Rod started – the six-hundred-pound woman who is trying to get to half a ton, and her encouraging and enabling co-fetishists. Although coming up with a correct and consistent theory of morality is extremely difficult, I am fairly sure I can call this behavior ‘imprudent’ if not out-and-out ‘morally wrong.’* One would assume that this woman (and her boyfriend and other enablers) has some desire to see herself be enormously fat. Fulfilling desires is generally a good thing: however, we are complex creatures with many and often conflicting desires. I would imagine that this woman also has other desires: desires to live and not to die, desires to express and give love, desires to be part of a community of human beings, to be self-determinate in her life and act as an independent agent, and so on. I think it is fairly self-evident that these desires are all thwarted by her immense size. If this fetish is like other fetishes, then I suspect it is consuming enough that she either does not think of or does not realize how negatively the rest of her life is being impacted by being 600 pounds. And as Dan Savage might have advised her, she could almost certainly have satisfied and managed this desire by overeating once in a blue moon and having her boyfriend call her a pig to her heart’s content, and then to stop dwelling on it and go running in the morning and maintain a healthy weight – one-quarter to one-third what she is now. It would certainly be much healthier. Although it is difficult to comment on the quality of life of people you don’t know, I find it a virtual certainty that she is drastically diminishing her own quality of life and shrinking her horizons by expanding her size. ‘Imprudent’ is a rather modest way to describe this behavior.
What I find a bit more telling, however, is that Dreher uses this extreme example to segue into the health costs of obesity, and contrasting this with starving people in Haiti, to make his later point that obesity is a spiritual problem. That’s some fancy slight of hand but it’s not very convincing. It is difficult for me to see how people who are starving are either helped or hurt by someone far away being obese. It may look awfully pious to paint fat people as out-of-control moral devils and the starving as moral angels, but it’s totally unrelated to why either group is the way they are. It is not as though the world has a limited amount of food supply and those who eat too much are preventing others from eating enough. In fact, we overproduce food and feeding the planet is not a matter of insufficient food production – the reasons people go hungry and are starving have to do with economics, infrastructure, and politics. “But there are starving people” is not a legitimate charge against the morbidly obese; “but you are diminishing you capacity to enjoy and experience these valuable things in life” is.
Rod also talks about his own struggles with weight. He says he’s put on some weight and is about 20-25 pounds heavier than he should, and even that this is approaching obesity. I find it very difficult to take this complaint seriously. Here is a picture of Rod from last year:
It is hard to imagine how 20-25 pounds on that slight frame can be reasonably taken as a man who seriously struggles with his weight. Perhaps he does, I don’t know. But knowing people who legitimately are larger and trying to lose weight, I have to ask myself if this is a bit of self-posturing and self-flagellating. If Rod is 20-25 pounds overweight due to bad habits, he certainly could stand to lose some weight. However he is hardly a member of the class of people who are obese, have food-addictions, or have weight-related health problems and are trying to get down to a manageable size. These 20-25 pounds are almost (but not quite) vanity weight. Bolstering my interpretation, Rod later goes on to talk about how lazy he is and how hard he is on himself about his weight in his follow-up post. Although Dreher himself might not be, it is entirely possible to have an extra 20-25 pounds without being either a glutton or a sloth. Perhaps he is exaggerating for the sake of the blogosphere, I don’t know; I just find his caricaturization of a handful of pounds to be a bit unbelievable.
I can’t help but wonder if people like Rod who go to lengths to stigmatize being overweight (and have concerns about their own weight) are being counterproductive. I would agree to some extent with the original NYT article and also with TNC: shaming is a solution to almost nothing. Shame encourages evasion and hiding more than seeking a solution. And because weight affects our perception of beauty, a focus on weight loss is often indistinguishable from a focus on increasing beauty. (A cursory glance at weight-loss advertisement is a pretty good indication of this.) I’d be much happier to see Rod – or anyone for that matter – talking more about health and activity than weight and fatness. For the vast majority of people, it is the altering of our lifestyle around healthy activities, exercise, and healthier and better foods that affect our overall health more than a single-minded focus on weight. I suspect there are deeply-rooted cultural and systematic reasons** why populations become overweight. But I also suspect the more we promote a single-minded focus on weight and attach strong stigmas to fat, the more likely we are to get our piousness and self-righteousness from attempting to attain some standard of beauty rather than promoting our health. I suspect that pursuing healthy activities and a healthy eating pattern first would lead to the net side-effect of smaller waistlines. Weight and health may correlate, but one does not cause the other; and the same for weight and gluttony, and even weight and beauty.
*The reason being I find it difficult to make a moral issue out of what one does to oneself – nevertheless one does not exist in a vacuum and even given that a person cannot morally wrong themselves, this woman’s actions could still be classified as immoral. Regardless of whether it is immoral or imprudent, this line of behavior I feel pretty comfortable condemning as a wrong way to live. The immorality of her boyfriend and her enablers, however, I am much more comfortable in asserting.
**The wide availability of cheap, government-subsidized foods (such as corn, which has given us the ubiquitous high-fructose corn starch) is one example of a systemic cause tending to increase weight. More difficult causes may be things like an increase in cultural activities that require sitting down, long periods of time spent in vehicles, and generally living in an environment radically different from the one we evolved and mostly lived in only ten thousand or so years ago.









